When is it too late to get a marriage annulled
Why Did You Get Divorced After Less Than A Year?
people who marriages lasted less than a
year months
weeks days or even hours
when did you realize you'd made a
mistake and why
cliffs my new wife changed the second i
said i do
she instantly became controlling
manipulative and would lie about
anything to get her way and double down
when caught
the marriage lasted about 10 months
before we got married
she was considerate kind and sweet
apparently all for show this is my dad
in a nutshell
he is on divorce number four now every
time i have seen he is the perfect
boyfriend
opens doors buys nice things keeps his
appearance up
goes out to eat with them never swears
basically a great act he can keep up for
a year or more
second he gets married he completely
stops buying anything that isn't fishing
equipment
grabs his old ratty clothing from
college he is 60 now
starts drinking and swearing like a
sailor and completely stops cooking and
cleaning
his last three wives were all super
confused with what happened but the
short answer is he is a child
when he is dating he is a salesman
trying to close a deal
when he gets married suddenly he has a
new mother to take care of everything
for him so he can off
two months in he told me i was too fat
and will no longer be having sex with me
i lost 75 pounds in three months by
doing it the wrong way
and he told me he was already seeing
someone else he seemed surprised my
parents would no longer pay his bills
and was kicked off their property 30
days later per laws of my state
not me but my ex-girlfriend a few years
ago before we met she was dating a guy
for about seven years or so
due to family pressures tradition etc
she went and got married to the guy
they went home in separate cars because
she said they both realized it was a
mistake
lived with her cousins for six months
because she was scared to tell her
parents
when my former buddy called me to tell
me he got herpes from my wife
i had two good friends who were brothers
they were party animals
out drinking at bars all the time
sleeping with different women every
weekend
recreational drugs their idols were the
whole jackass crew back in the day
they just loved that whole bachelor
lifestyle and to be
honest i was a bit jealous of the fun
they were having
i was in a longer-term relationship for
many years
eventually the younger brother settled
down and got engaged to a really nice
girl
something broke in the older brother's
mind and he suddenly was
in some sort of race to get married
before his younger brother
he kept living the bachelor lifestyle
but then one day announced to us all he
was engaged to be married and with his
fiancee they'd set a wedding date to be
married six months before his younger
brother
none of us ever met this girl before we
found out he was engaged
when we did meet her it was clear he'd
not been open with her about his
lifestyle
she was a very prim and proper lady very
shy
quiet they worked together so she only
knew the professional side of him
over the months leading to the wedding
his partying kept going
he was cheating on her with one night
stands but she was oblivious
our group of friends told him he needed
to tell her what he was
doing but he refused i was nominated to
be the one to tell her before it was too
late
i met her for coffee and told her how he
was cheating on her and the drugs he was
using
she was generally taken aback but she
told me to my face
she was still going to marry him and
that she could change him
i left with a clear conscience after
that fast forward to their wedding day
and it is an absolute mess
he is drunk before the reception even
starts and passes out in a corner
sometime after dinner
as i am leaving i say goodbye to his
bride
and i can see it in her eyes the
definition of regret
they ended up being together for a year
her final straw was when she really
wanted to go out for a special brunch
for their one-year anniversary she made
plans at a fancy place
he told her he was going out to party
the night before but would be home in
time to get some sleep before their
anniversary started
he ended up going home with some chick
he picked up at the bar
and when he finally made it home the
next afternoon his wife had packed her
bags and left
i felt bad for her at first but then i
remembered how i laid everything on the
table with her and she still did it
i've never seen or spoken to her again
my friend
ended up repeating his pattern he is on
his fourth marriage now but does seem to
have finally settled down this time
when i found out on my son's first
birthday that she cheated again
not me but a friend their marriage
didn't last through the reception
groom got absolutely shit-faced drunk
and slaps the bride's child from a
previous relationship and then hits the
bride in the face
she filed for an annulment the next
morning
to be honest i didn't really want to be
married to her
however she was determined to get
married by age 24 regardless
and at the time i had significant
difficulties saying no
i was working 60 plus odd hours a week
in a kitchen to help pay for everything
and i was struggling with my mental
health at the time and we grew further
and further apart emotionally
i found out less than five months into
the marriage that she had been
unfaithful to me for at least a year
so six sevenths of a month before the
wedding whilst she had been planning it
she had been sleeping with other people
whilst she had been putting serious
pressure on me to provide pound pound
pound for her dream wedding she had also
had an abortion because she didn't know
whether i would have been the father or
not
when i found this all out i basically
had a breakdown and tried taking my own
life
i also spent a few years after this
blaming myself for the breakdown of my
marriage and her behavior
i had some friends that got married and
divorced within a year
it turns out she had major doubts but
went through with it anyway
then cried for the whole honeymoon and
told him she had made a huge mistake
they posted all these normal pictures of
them looking happy in hawaii
but it came out later what a miserable
nightmare the trip was
wasn't my marriage but i am involved in
the story
basically my ex-girlfriend's boss left
his wife on their honeymoon because she
and him were having an affair
they had the wedding and flew off to
bali but he was sneaking off into the
bathroom to send my then-girlfriend dick
pics from his honeymoon
i saw one of the pictures and confronted
her she admitted to it and messaged him
back to tell him that i had found out
my understanding is that he basically
came out of the bathroom
told his wife i think this was a mistake
we shouldn't have gotten married
got on a plane and flew home left her
there on her own on her
honeymoon with no explanation in the end
i had to be the one to go over to her
place and tell her what had really
happened because he wouldn't own up to
it
so i think the marriage lasted all of
about three days not my story but a
fraternity brother of my husband had a
marriage that lasted maybe 100 days
before they split
apparently she didn't internalize that
marrying a military person would mean
moving around
and he just assumed she knew and was
good with it
my sister's marriage lasted about 40
days
she found out he was a paedophile when
my other sister came
forward that he'd been raping her for
the last four months
when he was arrested police found a
video of me getting dressed on his phone
i thank god every day that she came
forward when she did
because he was grooming me to be his
next victim he was sentenced to 12 years
in prison and has no contact orders with
everyone in my immediate family
this event was the end of my childhood
skeptical smiley face
when she cheated on me for the third
time in 10 months
because for some reason the first two
didn't convince me
i had a friend who married one of the
most horrible people i've ever met
so charming at first but within the
first three months of them being
together
we all started to notice a few things
and we decided none of us liked him
one day we saw hand-shaped bruises on
her arms
and literally the next day they were at
the courthouse getting married
we had a small gathering shortly after
which he ended up turning into their
wedding celebration
bachelor party whatever he could to make
it all about him
he got extremely drunk and basically
tried to kill her in front of all of us
she told us they didn't have their rings
yet but they would get them
soon and he walked over to her and
started strangling her for embarrassing
him
she ended up breaking down and realizing
that for the entire four months of their
relationship
and nine days of their marriage he had
progressively gotten more and more
abusive
and she made a mistake very glad she
left
strangulation in an abusive relationship
is the number one
indicator of murder as in the chances of
him eventually killing her over over 95
on our honeymoon she didn't want to do
anything but fight
so i left two days early to be with my
dog lol
then she stopped wearing her ring and
refused to tell people she was married
referring to me as her boyfriend instead
the final straw was when my grandpa was
dying and she said i wish he'd just
hurry up and die already i'm tired of
this apartment being so depressing all
the time
made it four months in all before filing
for divorce
four months in he dislocated my jaw but
really what i want to share is the signs
were there and people should be aware of
them
first it was just grabbing my arm kind
of hard then grabbing my arm hard enough
to bruise it
then pushing then slapping it took years
so escalate
i heard it gets worse i didn't think too
much of it
i thought i'm not a wimp and it isn't
like he's beating the out of me
every day i thought that's what domestic
abuse looked like
then i married him well let me tell you
if they're grabbing
pushing or hitting you they will
eventually hurt you worse
happened to my friend's husband suggests
an open marriage
girl for some reason agrees fast forward
three months into being married
he gets jealous because they find a hot
guy and the girl likes the guy better
than her husband
they lasted six months reminds me of an
old aita of a guy who was jealous
because he'd made his girlfriend wife
have an open relationship and now she
was getting way more and better guys
than he ever did women
hilarious karma not me but my brother
he got his first serious girlfriend
during his senior year of college
he was doing a lot of different stuff
with her and told me that he was really
happy
i told him that i thought that was great
but that he needed to remember to take
things slow
a week later he bought a ring everyone
in my family attempted to talk him out
of it
everyone but i knew my brother was going
to do whatever he wanted
so i just said sure they rented a house
bought furniture moved in got married
and after a month
they got divorced i think it was soon
enough to get an annulment
but i'm not sure main thing was that my
brother wanted to move out of our
hometown when he was finished with
college
his wife was completely fine never
leaving i don't even think she was going
to school
she would just sit at home all day so
that was that
good times
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