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Signs Your Marriage Is Over And Not Worth Fighting For | Signs You Need To Get Out NOW!

What are the true signs that your marriage is over?

What are the signs that your marriage is not worth fighting for?

Welcome to HAPPILY COMMITTED

My name is Coach Adrian and I've dedicated my life helping people find

happiness in their relationships. For a long time I helped people recover after

break-up, separation, and divorces and now I'm focusing more on helping people

create the relationship they want and to truly thrive in their relationship in

order to avoid a breakup or a separation because I know how devastating it can be

for both parties. And unfortunately sometimes a marriage is coming to an end.

And I wanted to discuss the true signs that this is the end so that you know

where you stand and you're not fighting in vain for a relationship that is quite

frankly not worth fighting for.

The first sign that your marriage is over is when your partner is unable to

stop putting their needs at your expense, even after you've communicated and try

to rebuild a healthier marriage and connection in the relationship, if their

happiness constantly comes at your expense and you are feeling worse, you're

feeling overwhelmed, and quite frankly only one person is existing in that

relationship, the marriage is coming to an end.

Ultimately a relationship or marriage will be unbalanced if only one person is

happy and that happiness comes and the others person's expense. So if you can

relate to this it is probably a clear true sign that your marriage is over.

The second sign that a marriage is over is when you can't seem to find a way to

get out of the blame mode or the blame game and it's quite common for people to

argue to fight to bicker and to criticise in any relationship because we

have a tendency of getting frustrated and it's a lot easier to blame someone

else than to take accountability for our actions. But when after years and years,

weeks after week, day after day, you are criticizing and blaming the other

person's for your happiness and you are re litigating past fights and living in

the past it is a sign that your marriage is over.

The third sign that I've seen that indicated to me as a coach that my

clients marriage was over is when one or the other party cannot seem to find any

goodness in the other. And it's sad but I've seen this. I see this quite a lot

towards the end of relationships or marriages where people are so consumed

by their resentment their anger and they start to despise their significant other

and they cannot even see one quality trait or attribute. And that

unfortunately is very sad because clearly even though you may not be at a

point where you can connect with each other, your partner has good qualities.

They must. Because you fell for in love with them and because all human beings

have a tendency to have good qualities. Unless of course you're in a toxic

relationship or you're married to a sociopath. So if you cannot see any good

in the man or the woman that you're with that is a clear sign that your marriage

is over.

Another sign that your marriage is over is when your partner seeks to cut you

off from your friends and your family, from the things that you love to do. And

that extreme controlling behavior is a sign of toxicity and it's a sign that

you need to make sure that you are aware of what's going on and that you're able

to establish clear boundaries otherwise you're gonna find yourself in a downward

spiral very quickly.

Ultimately if you or your partner are unwilling to change, if you or your

partner think that the other person is the only issue, it's a sign that your

marriage is over because a relationship or a marriage is

like a garden that needs to be constantly and continuously nurtured and

attended to. And when one person gives up the garden will grow weeds and

unfortunately it is impossible to be in a relationship where both parties are

not actively seeking to make it work. And we don't take divorce lightly. We are

HAPPILY COMMITTED we want to make sure that no stone is left unturned, that

everything is done before pulling the trigger because divorce is seldom not

the right option for many people and in one of my previous videos I talked about

the divorce rate but the rate of second divorces is even higher. It's at 67% and

the rate of a third divorce is even higher at 74% so I'm not trying to scare

you and in some cases divorce is the only way but quite frankly we are

HAPPILY COMMITTED and we want to make sure that everything is done in order to

help you make sound decisions and to maximize your chances of being in a

fulfilling healthy relationship with your spouse. If you've enjoyed this video

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fighting the good fight to try to make this world better and to try to make

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